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Cool to be Variety: Bruce Reyes-Chow’s new e-book “In Protection of Kindness”


Teresa Blythe reviews Presbyterian pastor and author Bruce Reyes-Chow's new book, In Defense of Kindness.Kindness would possibly want a defender. From the 2016 presidential election on, there’s been a debate about efficient responses to racism, sexism, heterosexism, questions of immigration reform, systemic injustice — and even simply plain rudeness. Will we meet “fireplace with fireplace” in our response, will we stroll away, or will we deal with such dialogue with kindness? Self-proclaimed “kindness fanatic” and Presbyterian pastor Bruce Reyes-Chow explores these choices and extra in his new e-book, “In Protection of Kindness: Why It Issues, How It Adjustments Our Lives, and How It Can Save the World” (Chalice Press, 2021).

Reyes-Chow needs to make it cool to be form — pointing to the teachings of Mister Rogers as a information. “We’ve got lowered the kindness bar, and we have now change into lazy,” he stated, reflecting on how straightforward it’s for dads to be declared wonderful after they do any small quantity of house responsibilities or childcare whereas a lot extra is predicted, each day, of mothers. We’re too form to some teams and too withholding of kindness to others. Drawing on his work in battle decision in organizations and his deep understanding of systemic racism, Reyes-Chow tells us it’s OK — even admirable — to be form to people in our lives, however we have to broaden that to be form on a macro stage, working to dismantle methods of poverty, racism and different types of discrimination. Kindness is about greater than white individuals cheering on #BlackLivesMatter, it’s additionally about white individuals laying down privilege and never making each social justice effort about them.

In Protection of Kindness is written in brief, easy-to-digest chapters addressing methods we are able to nurture kindness with these closest to us, within the public sq., interactions on the web, in addition to instances we use kindness in poisonous methods — permitting pity and guilt to drive us to acts of kindness that aren’t useful to others however serve solely to, as he places it, “discount away the sins of our previous or alleviate our duty to be a part of international restoration efforts in instances of tragedy.” He tells a narrative about Christian teams that despatched containers of extra-large paper hospital robes to Haiti after the 2009 earthquake. Looks as if a form gesture, however:

This was the very last thing this hospital wanted. First, extra-large robes are big, and second, paper hospital robes in such a sweat-inducing local weather are usually not sturdy. (93)

The robes ended up helpful in a method: they have been burned to offer warmth.

One of many hardest challenges for many people is what Reyes-Chow entitles “Kindness to The Politician.” Being form to the elected official who doesn’t exhibit kindness to people who find themselves poor, sick, disabled or in any other case oppressed is actually exhausting for social justice advocates. However, being form to the highly effective, elected politician who exhibits little compassion doesn’t imply we ignore their actions and hold our mouths shut. “To be form to The Politician means holding them accountable with out denying their private struggles and experiences,” says Reyes-Chow.

So, when you assume kindness is in brief provide and also you battle with what it means to be form in tough conditions, this small e-book may also help you assume by means of methods to enhance. It consists of reflection questions on the finish of every chapter, making it a pleasant information for a e-book membership or spirituality group, or for people to make use of for journaling or reflection on a solo retreat.

Teresa Blythe is a author and religious director based mostly in Phoenix. You’ll find In Protection of Kindness from Chalice Press on Amazon. Extra on Bruce Reyes-Chow is discovered at


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